I have many gifts and talents, but none of them extend to work around the house that goes beyond basic cleaning. I’ve lived in apartments for most of my adult life. I’ve never been the type who could just touch something with their hands and figure out how it all goes together, or more importantly, how it comes apart. These are probably lessons I should have learned early on. If I had, though, I wouldn’t have such great stories!
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UBC Day 15: A Love Letter to My Past Self
Content warnings for mention of frank suicide methods.
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UBC Day 14: What Book is That Anyway?
Anyone who knows me at all understands that I love to read. They also know that I enjoy community. The ability to both read what I like and be able to discuss genres and its myriad of tropes should be considered a match made in Heaven. Listening to the perspective of others and giving book recommendations is incredibly fun. There are, however, some downsides to being a part of online book spaces that I would like to discuss, particularly when it comes to Facebook groups.
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UBC Day 12: Showing Love to Myself, or How to Swim Up a Waterfall
No one will ever love you unless you love yourself. This is a well-meaning phrase that has been used repeatedly to try to encourage those of us with issues surrounding self-worth and difficulty in seeing ourselves the way that others see us to somehow figure it out. The subtext is usually that if we don’t get it together, we’ll never have relationships, and no one will love the scarred, broken pieces. The message seems to say that the only people worth loving are those who are pristine. I don’t believe people who say this phrase mean that, but impact often trumps intent.
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UBC 11: a Recipe for Twilight
The blog prompt for today had to do with recipes, and so I would like to share one with you. It is a tried and true list of ingredients that makes for a painfully delicious meal. Before I get to that, however, let’s give a little background.
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UBC Day 10: 10 things that make me Happy
Today is the tenth day of the blog challenge that I have been doing which means that I am one third of the way through. This is both scary and exciting. I’m so happy at my progress.
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UBC Day 9: Learning the Right Lessons
Today is what many people call throwback Thursday, a day that gives people an opportunity to share old pictures or memories about what they used to be like back then compared to now.
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UBC Day 8: Another Day Down
This is my eighth post in this blog challenge and I have to admit that I am pretty proud of myself even though this has not gone at all the way that I intended. Music has been a part of me for as long as I can remember, but I often did not believe I was a part of it. I believed that music was inaccessible to me, that other people had beautiful voices but not me. I spent a very long time thinking that I couldn’t carry a tune in a bucket. I have really struggled to figure out what my topic would be for today. This blog challenge is good in that it is getting me to write every day, but I have a hard time just letting my thoughts flow without having to justify it.
UBC Day 5: Solving the Musical Puzzle
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